Memorable Conversation about Love on FB

A conversation with a friend about love on FB

VB: So how do you know if you've found the one? You think about the vows you take. For better or worse, sickness and health, richer or poorer, til death.

VB: If you can honestly say yes, then that is that one.(The Game)

Shadreana Sanders: I got better and worse, sickness (I'll call the Dr. unless you got that ninja) and health (we getting older so more open to health issues I guess but this would be nice)..richer (can you control yourself if you got it made) or poorer (will being broke drive us apart or together, or is the only time you love me when I am broke) til death (I will kill him anyways when he violates..lmao) Love that scene from the Game tho

VB: I feel ya girl. You gotta get all that together.

Shadreana Sanders: Single life looks better and better if that's the case. But IF he exists this time he will be my friend first. Know why I smiile, why I cry. Support my good, and can tell me about my bad. He'll appreciate the woman he has found, and will ne...ver take me for granted. He will remember I love flowers and cards, and forget me nots. He will thank me for my loyalty and take me as I am. Be able to commit to all the vows...better and worse ( and we will survive that together) sickness and health (hope so I am getting up there) richer or poorer (I have been poor long enough, this one will enjoy my better days) til death all I can say is the movie the NOTEBOOK...he will love me enough to want to live and die with me. That's some not all.

VB: I completely agree. You put my thoughts in words. You have always been good at that. Even in high school.

Shadreana Sanders: Most importantly he will love me the way that Christ loves the church...because he will have found his wife and his rib...I won't take him any other way!

VB: Amen.

Shadreana Sanders: Great minds think alike and great women deserve great men. I guess that is why I think I am going to be single forever. I have had bad for so long, it feels like that "he" I desire is non existent. I mean ask a man if he has all his 3's which I DO (APT, CAR, JOB, TIME FOR ME) they can never say yes to all that. What are your goals? Do you have dreams beyond what you have now, and what are you doing to pursue them? What is your credit score, does it matter to you? Simple stuff that is important, because if has not learned the importance of independance and self preservation he can not be the one you need.

VB: True words of wisdom. But wait I say on the Lord. Like we have been taught "HE who findeth a wife, findeth a good thing." So let Gods man find you. He is out there going through the same test as you. Once the Lord has taken both of you on your separate journey's, he will join the two paths to one.

And a sidenote from my friend SD: There is more to it than hunching the weiney...My next wife will not get it until it's time...

Which poses a good thought make sure he can wait for you and you can wait for him in the physical sense that way you know he appreciates and you likewise appreciate the realness of you!